City of Oaks Funeral Home & Cremation

Obituary
Nancy Trevillian

Wake Forest, North Carolina

Age 61.
Died 02/24/2022.

Nancy Trevillian
Nancy Bailey Trevillian, age 61, of Wake Forest passed away Thursday, February 24, 2022. Nancy was born in Greenville, North Carolina, but grew up and spent most of her life in Raleigh.

Nancy graduated from Sanderson High School and earned a degree in Music Performance from East Carolina University. She worked as a certified legal secretary for many years before moving to a career inside the home, taking care of her three young boys.

The joys of Nancy’s life were her husband of 37 years, her children and their spouses, and her grandchildren. Nancy also enjoyed a life in music, playing flute and piano. While she performed all over the country in orchestra pits, on musical stages, and in worship services, her greatest passion was leading the youth choirs at Hillyer Memorial Christian Church.

Nancy is survived by her husband, John; son, A.J. and wife, Jenny and their children, Madelyn and Nolan; son, Adam, and wife, Rheagan; son, Nathan and wife, Victoria. Also, surviving are her mother, Sue Bailey; brother, David Bailey, and wife, Susan; sister, Barbara Healy, and husband, Mike; and sister-in-law, Kerri Bailey. She is predeceased by her father, Ed Bailey; brother, Chip Bailey; mother and father-in-law, Al and Bonnie Trevillian.

In place of flowers, please send donations in honor of Nancy to Transitions LifeCare (https://www.transitionslifecare.org/) or the Greater Carolinas Chapter of the National MS Society (https://www.nationalmssociety.org/Chapters/NCT).

A service will be held at Hillyer Memorial Christian Church, at 718 Hillsborough St, Raleigh, North Carolina 27603 on Friday, March 4, 2022, at 2:00 PM.

For additional information or for service details, please reach out to the family directly.


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City of Oaks Cremation and Funeral Home is a full-service funeral home in Raleigh, serving all of North Carolina and beyond. We provide an affordable alternative to costly funeral homes and every day we help families in Raleigh, Durham, Chapel Hill and all over North Carolina make simple, affordable funeral arrangements.

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Apples to Apples

Just like all other licensed funeral homes in North Carolina, City of Oaks Cremation, LLC is regulated by the NC Board of Funeral Service.


The same laws that apply to the big corporate funeral homes also apply to the modest independently owned firms like ours. All crematories in North Carolina, regardless of who owns them, are inspected annually by the state and must adhere to the same rules and laws.

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Our staff will provide clear communication to your family through each step as we move forward from the original phone call notifying us of a death to the time we deliver the urn back to your family. We will treat your family with the utmost respect, as we honor the wishes of your loved one.


We promise to make this process affordable and as endurable as possible.

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Our Funeral Home is located in Wake County NC; however, we provide our services to families throughout the entire State.


Unlike other funeral homes, we don't charge an additional mileage fee. Regardless of what county you live in, we can help your family with making simple, affordable funeral arrangements. From Asheville to Wilmington, we're proud to help families statewide.

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Direct Cremation

$1196.75

Nobody likes surprise costs added in at the last minute. We guarantee you will not find any hidden charges here. We include everything you need for a simple or direct cremation. Simple, affordable and reliable. We have not changed the cost of our direct cremation service since we opened City of Oaks in 2012.

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Cremation with Visitation

$1917.84

City of Oaks Funeral Home and Cremation provides an affordable cremation option with onsite visitation. Nobody likes surprise costs added in at the last minute. We guarantee you will not find any hidden charges here. Simple, affordable and reliable.

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Immediate Burial

$2497.50

An immediate burial has the same end result as a traditional burial; however, we have eliminated the extra (sometimes unnecessary) services prior to getting to the cemetery. Not everyone wants an open casket for viewing or a limousine for the family. Despite the term immediate, we can move as fast as you need or as slow as you like. This option simply allows you to save money by eliminating some of the fancy extras at the funeral home.

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Traditional Funeral

$5428.14

We offer the same traditional funeral services as the big corporately owned funeral homes in the area; however, we cost about half the amount. You might consider a traditional funeral service if your family is looking for an open casket visitation, a traditional church service or a funeral service in the funeral home's chapel. A traditional funeral service can be altered to fit the needs of your family.

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Green Burial

$3033.75

This establishment is one of a select number of funeral homes who meet the criteria for providing green funeral service by the Green Burial Council; a tax-exempt, nonprofit organization working to encourage environmentally sustainability in the field of funeral service. Our Green options allow for a funeral to take place without the use of toxic and non-biodegradable materials/chemicals.

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