City of Oaks Funeral Home & Cremation

Nancy Patricia Pinckney

Raleigh, North Carolina

Age 90.
Died 10/09/2022.

Nancy Patricia Pinckney
Nancy Patricia Gary Pinckney died following a brief illness on October 9, 2022, at Transitions LifeCare in
Raleigh, NC. Mrs. Pinckney moved to Raleigh in June 2021 and resided in the Magnolia Glen Senior
Living community.
Mrs. Pinckney was born in Charleston, SC, on October 20, 1931, the daughter of James Clark Gary and
Nancy Witherspoon Gary. She graduated from St. Andrews High School and attended the University of
South Carolina. She married Philip DuTart Pinckney on September 13, 1952. She was a member of First
Families of South Carolina, the National Society of the Colonial Dames of America, the Huguenot Society,
and the Daughters of the American Revolution, where she served as Regent of the Rebecca Mott
Chapter and was a charter member of the Eliza Lucas Pinckney Chapter in Charleston and an associate
member of the Caswell-Nash Chapter in Raleigh. She was also a docent for the Historical Society and the
Preservation Society. One of her most noteworthy accomplishments was her leading role in the
restoration of the Old Exchange Building in Charleston, a National Historic Landmark. She was an active
member of St. James Episcopal Church and St. Andrews Anglican Church in Charleston, and the Church
of the Good Shepherd (Episcopal) in Raleigh. She enjoyed playing bridge and was an avid USC Gamecock
Mrs. Pinckney is predeceased by her husband and parents. She is survived by her daughter, Nancy
Witherspoon Pinckney Boyne (John) of Raleigh and son, Philip DuTart Pinckney Jr. (Melonie) of
Charleston; her grandchildren, John Vincent Boyne, Jr. (Karen), James Clark Boyne (Erin), Philip Pinckney
Boyne (Hellen), and Jesse Philip Pinckney; and her great-grandchildren, John Vincent Boyne, III, Elizabeth
Anita Boyne, Van Leo Boyne, Jesse Lane Pinckney, and Caroline Grace Pinckney, and many nieces and
A celebration of life service will be held at the Church of the Good Shepherd in Raleigh on October 16 at
1:00 PM. A separate service will be held at a later date in Charleston. Memorial gifts may be sent to the
Friends of The Old Exchange Building (Attn. Tony Youmans), 122 East Bay St., Charleston, SC 29401.

For additional information or for service details, please reach out to the family directly.

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City of Oaks Cremation and Funeral Home is a full-service funeral home in Raleigh, serving all of North Carolina and beyond. We provide an alternative to costly funeral homes and every day we help families in Raleigh, Durham, Chapel Hill and all over North Carolina make simple, affordable funeral arrangements.

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Our Promise

Apples to Apples

Just like all other licensed funeral homes in North Carolina, City of Oaks Cremation, LLC is regulated by the NC Board of Funeral Service.

The same laws that apply to the big corporate funeral homes also apply to the modest independently owned firms like ours. All crematories in North Carolina, regardless of who owns them, are inspected annually by the state and must adhere to the same rules and laws.

Genuine Care

We're committed to providing families within our community unsurpassed service before, during and after the time of loss.

Our staff will provide clear communication to your family through each step as we move forward from the original phone call notifying us of a death to the time we deliver the urn back to your family. We will treat your family with the utmost respect, as we honor the wishes of your loved one.

We promise to make this process affordable and as endurable as possible.

State Wide

Our Funeral Home is located in Wake County NC; however, we provide our services to families throughout the entire State.

Unlike other funeral homes, we don't charge an additional mileage fee. Regardless of what county you live in, we can help your family with making simple, affordable funeral arrangements. From Asheville to Wilmington, we're proud to help families statewide.

Our Services

Direct Cremation


Nobody likes surprise costs added in at the last minute. We guarantee you will not find any hidden charges here. We include everything you need for a simple or direct cremation. Simple, affordable and reliable. We have not changed the cost of our direct cremation service since we opened City of Oaks in 2012.

Cremation with Solidified Remains


We offer the option of choosing how you receive your loved ones remains. Selecting our Direct Cremation with Solidified Remains option is a beautiful way to transform cremated remains into 40-60 “stones” that you can hold.

Cremation with Visitation


City of Oaks Funeral Home and Cremation provides an affordable cremation option with onsite visitation. Nobody likes surprise costs added in at the last minute. We guarantee you will not find any hidden charges here. Simple, affordable and reliable.

Immediate Burial


An immediate burial has the same end result as a traditional burial; however, we have eliminated the extra (sometimes unnecessary) services prior to getting to the cemetery. Not everyone wants an open casket for viewing or a limousine for the family. Despite the term immediate, we can move as fast as you need or as slow as you like. This option simply allows you to save money by eliminating some of the fancy extras at the funeral home.

Traditional Funeral


We offer the same traditional funeral services as the big corporately owned funeral homes in the area; however, we cost about half the amount. You might consider a traditional funeral service if your family is looking for an open casket visitation, a traditional church service or a funeral service in the funeral home's chapel. A traditional funeral service can be altered to fit the needs of your family.

Green Burial


This establishment is one of a select number of funeral homes who meet the criteria for providing green funeral service by the Green Burial Council; a tax-exempt, nonprofit organization working to encourage environmentally sustainability in the field of funeral service. Our Green options allow for a funeral to take place without the use of toxic and non-biodegradable materials/chemicals.



As an alternative to traditional cremation, City of Oaks Funeral Home also offers Aquamation. The Aquamation process, often referred to as alkaline hydrolysis, uses a solution of water and potassium hydroxide to facilitate natural decomposition.

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