City of Oaks Funeral Home & Cremation

James Carrino

Cary, North Carolina

Age 82.
Died 03/03/2023.

James Carrino
James Joseph Carrino, 82, passed away on March 3, 2023 after a brief illness.

Jim was born on January 23, 1941 to Anthony and Mabel Carrino and raised in the New York City borough of Manhattan in the neighborhood of Yorkville. As a child, he was a choir boy at St. Patrick’s Cathedral.

He attended St. Ann's Academy, which was later re-named Archbishop Molloy. He excelled in basketball as a guard on the undefeated Catholic High School national championship basketball team in his senior season (1957) and was a well sought after recruit, which gave him the flexibility to attend the college of his choice.

Jim attended Georgetown University on scholarship and was a member of the varsity basketball team from 1959-1962. He graduated with a A.B. in Philosophy in 1962. He remembered his years “on the hilltop” fondly and he remained close to his college friends and teammates for the rest of his life.

Jim continued his basketball career during a brief stint in the U.S. Navy, stationed at the Norfolk Naval Base. He was a member of the All-Navy team, the All-Armed Forces team and he was proud to have represented his country in the 1964 basketball Olympic Trials.

Jim married the former Judith R. Kennedy, of Charleston, W.V., on July 2, 1964 and they enjoyed nearly 59 years of marriage. Together, they welcomed three children, Darren Carrino, of Greensboro, N.C., Shannon Orwin and Aliza Johnson, both of Cary, N.C. Jim is also survived by his brother Gerald, and sister-in-law Gail, of Cleveland, OH, and grandchildren, James, Jessica, Jordan and Julianna Crowell and Emily and Grace Carrino.

Jim was a man of strong wit and intellect and even stronger faith. He enjoyed watching college basketball (especially his Hoyas), traveling, collecting smoking pipes, debating religious matters and politics (he moderated over the years), keeping in touch with friends from near and far (several of whom have been close friends since grade school) and, most of all, being a loving and spirited son, brother, husband, father and papa.

While he achieved success in business and basketball, nothing gave Jim more pride and joy than his family.

A Funeral Mass is planned at noon on March 31, 2023 at Mother Teresa Catholic Church in Cary, N.C. with a reception to follow at Bradford Hall (Carolina Preserve).

For additional information or for service details, please reach out to the family directly.

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Apples to Apples

Just like all other licensed funeral homes in North Carolina, City of Oaks Cremation, LLC is regulated by the NC Board of Funeral Service.

The same laws that apply to the big corporate funeral homes also apply to the modest independently owned firms like ours. All crematories in North Carolina, regardless of who owns them, are inspected annually by the state and must adhere to the same rules and laws.

Genuine Care

We're committed to providing families within our community unsurpassed service before, during and after the time of loss.

Our staff will provide clear communication to your family through each step as we move forward from the original phone call notifying us of a death to the time we deliver the urn back to your family. We will treat your family with the utmost respect, as we honor the wishes of your loved one.

We promise to make this process affordable and as endurable as possible.

State Wide

Our Funeral Home is located in Wake County NC; however, we provide our services to families throughout the entire State.

Unlike other funeral homes, we don't charge an additional mileage fee. Regardless of what county you live in, we can help your family with making simple, affordable funeral arrangements. From Asheville to Wilmington, we're proud to help families statewide.

Our Services

Direct Cremation


Nobody likes surprise costs added in at the last minute. We guarantee you will not find any hidden charges here. We include everything you need for a simple or direct cremation. Simple, affordable and reliable. We have not changed the cost of our direct cremation service since we opened City of Oaks in 2012.

Cremation with Solidified Remains


We offer the option of choosing how you receive your loved ones remains. Selecting our Direct Cremation with Solidified Remains option is a beautiful way to transform cremated remains into 40-60 “stones” that you can hold.

Cremation with Visitation


City of Oaks Funeral Home and Cremation provides an affordable cremation option with onsite visitation. Nobody likes surprise costs added in at the last minute. We guarantee you will not find any hidden charges here. Simple, affordable and reliable.

Immediate Burial


An immediate burial has the same end result as a traditional burial; however, we have eliminated the extra (sometimes unnecessary) services prior to getting to the cemetery. Not everyone wants an open casket for viewing or a limousine for the family. Despite the term immediate, we can move as fast as you need or as slow as you like. This option simply allows you to save money by eliminating some of the fancy extras at the funeral home.

Traditional Funeral


We offer the same traditional funeral services as the big corporately owned funeral homes in the area; however, we cost about half the amount. You might consider a traditional funeral service if your family is looking for an open casket visitation, a traditional church service or a funeral service in the funeral home's chapel. A traditional funeral service can be altered to fit the needs of your family.

Green Burial


This establishment is one of a select number of funeral homes who meet the criteria for providing green funeral service by the Green Burial Council; a tax-exempt, nonprofit organization working to encourage environmentally sustainability in the field of funeral service. Our Green options allow for a funeral to take place without the use of toxic and non-biodegradable materials/chemicals.



As an alternative to traditional cremation, City of Oaks Funeral Home also offers Aquamation. The Aquamation process, often referred to as alkaline hydrolysis, uses a solution of water and potassium hydroxide to facilitate natural decomposition.

City of Oaks Funeral Home & Cremations