City of Oaks Funeral Home & Cremation

Jane Lyons Bird

Cary, North Carolina

Age 93.
Died 10/31/2023.

Jane Lyons Bird
Jane Elizabeth (Lyons) Bird died peacefully in Cary, North Carolina on October 31, 2023 at the age of 93.

Jane is survived by her children Rebecca Bird, Edward Bird, Amy McAlister, Teresa Dineen and Peter Bird, and her sister Nancy Murphy. She is preceded in death by her husband Lawrence R. Bird and her siblings Susannah Williamson and Thomas Lyons III.

Jane was born on April 14th, 1930 in Washington DC to Kathleen (Ewing) and Thomas Lyons Jr. She met her husband, Larry, in a CPA review course where they were both students – and she was the only woman in the class. They were married in 1954 in Fairfax, VA. She worked for several years as an accountant and bookkeeper. Jane and Larry raised their family in Laurel, Maryland, where the children attended St. Mary’s Elementary School and St. Vincent Pallotti High School. They were members of St. Mary’s of the Mills Catholic Church, where Jane and Larry were actively involved for many years.

Jane was an avid gardener and cat lover. She doted on her garden and yard in Laurel; at her home in NC, her cat Jackie was her constant companion. She was an accomplished seamstress and knitter, making her own wedding dress, and knitting sweaters for each of her 17 grandchildren. Jane and Larry camped with their young family throughout the mid-Atlantic states and continued to camp together after Larry’s retirement. After Larry died in 2010, Jane moved to North Carolina to be near her daughter Amy, who was a devoted caregiver.

The funeral is scheduled for 11:00 am on November 18th, 2023 at St. Mary’s Church in Laurel, Maryland, with a reception to follow. All are welcome to attend and celebrate Jane’s life. In lieu of flowers, please send donations to or, where Jane and Larry volunteered for more than a decade.

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City of Oaks Cremation and Funeral Home is a full-service funeral home in Raleigh, serving all of North Carolina and beyond. We provide an alternative to costly funeral homes and every day we help families in Raleigh, Durham, Chapel Hill and all over North Carolina make simple, affordable funeral arrangements.

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Our Promise

Apples to Apples

Just like all other licensed funeral homes in North Carolina, City of Oaks Cremation, LLC is regulated by the NC Board of Funeral Service.

The same laws that apply to the big corporate funeral homes also apply to the modest independently owned firms like ours. All crematories in North Carolina, regardless of who owns them, are inspected annually by the state and must adhere to the same rules and laws.

Genuine Care

We're committed to providing families within our community unsurpassed service before, during and after the time of loss.

Our staff will provide clear communication to your family through each step as we move forward from the original phone call notifying us of a death to the time we deliver the urn back to your family. We will treat your family with the utmost respect, as we honor the wishes of your loved one.

We promise to make this process affordable and as endurable as possible.

State Wide

Our Funeral Home is located in Wake County NC; however, we provide our services to families throughout the entire State.

Unlike other funeral homes, we don't charge an additional mileage fee. Regardless of what county you live in, we can help your family with making simple, affordable funeral arrangements. From Asheville to Wilmington, we're proud to help families statewide.

Our Services

Direct Cremation


Nobody likes surprise costs added in at the last minute. We guarantee you will not find any hidden charges here. We include everything you need for a simple or direct cremation. Simple, affordable and reliable. We have not changed the cost of our direct cremation service since we opened City of Oaks in 2012.

Cremation with Solidified Remains


We offer the option of choosing how you receive your loved ones remains. Selecting our Direct Cremation with Solidified Remains option is a beautiful way to transform cremated remains into 40-60 “stones” that you can hold.

Cremation with Visitation


City of Oaks Funeral Home and Cremation provides an affordable cremation option with onsite visitation. Nobody likes surprise costs added in at the last minute. We guarantee you will not find any hidden charges here. Simple, affordable and reliable.

Immediate Burial


An immediate burial has the same end result as a traditional burial; however, we have eliminated the extra (sometimes unnecessary) services prior to getting to the cemetery. Not everyone wants an open casket for viewing or a limousine for the family. Despite the term immediate, we can move as fast as you need or as slow as you like. This option simply allows you to save money by eliminating some of the fancy extras at the funeral home.

Traditional Funeral


We offer the same traditional funeral services as the big corporately owned funeral homes in the area; however, we cost about half the amount. You might consider a traditional funeral service if your family is looking for an open casket visitation, a traditional church service or a funeral service in the funeral home's chapel. A traditional funeral service can be altered to fit the needs of your family.

Green Burial


This establishment is one of a select number of funeral homes who meet the criteria for providing green funeral service by the Green Burial Council; a tax-exempt, nonprofit organization working to encourage environmentally sustainability in the field of funeral service. Our Green options allow for a funeral to take place without the use of toxic and non-biodegradable materials/chemicals.



As an alternative to traditional cremation, City of Oaks Funeral Home also offers Aquamation. The Aquamation process, often referred to as alkaline hydrolysis, uses a solution of water and potassium hydroxide to facilitate natural decomposition.

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