City of Oaks Funeral Home & Cremation
Obituary
Marva Lee Mehaffey
Raleigh, North Carolina
Age 83.
Died 06/14/2025.
Marva earned a BS in Home Economics from Iowa State University, where she met and married Ronald Mehaffey. Her career included roles as a 4-H Extension Agent, bookkeeper, tax preparer, and office manager for Habitat for Humanity.
Marva was a passionate giver and lifelong volunteer in the community, schools, and church. A devoted Presbyterian, Marva actively served in every church she joined—as a teacher, elder, or volunteer. Her love for reading, cards, quilting, and community involvement established life-long connections in each of the six states and two communities in England they called home. She helped organize and quilt over a thousand quilts for donation to hospitals and nursing homes and worked to create special bibs for the Rosewood Nursing Facility in their retirement community. A 55-year member of P.E.O., Marva was recently honored as a Golden Girl for her long-standing commitment to women’s education and philanthropy. Her efforts always reflect her commitment to service, compassion, and giving back to those in need within her community.
Marva was known for her warm hospitality and unwavering kindness. She enjoyed spending time with family and was a devoted wife, mother, grandmother, sister, aunt, and friend— often hosting gatherings, bees, card nights, reunions, and always creating lasting memories with her thoughtful words, annual Christmas ornaments, or generous spirit.
Marva is survived by her husband Ron, daughter Kathryn Mehaffey (Randy Million), son Russell (Patti) Mehaffey; and grandchildren Nathan Hasselbring (Julia Kaufmann), Matthew Hasselbring, Kasey (Tucker) Mills, Shannon Mehaffey, brothers Allan (Bev) Yeager, Robert (Dee) Yeager, Joe (Sandy) Yeager; and nieces/nephews Celeste Karan, Emily (Ben) Rexrode, Rachel (Shaman) Douglass, Laura (Tom) Fangman, Chris (Mikaela) Yeager and grandnieces/nephews Charlotte Karan, Anya Karan, Molly Rexrode, Beckner Rexrode, and Kellam Douglass. Marva was preceded in death by her parents, in-laws Raymond and Rita Mehaffey, and sister-in-law Jean Mehaffey.
Join us in honoring Marva's life. A service and celebration of life will be held on Friday, June 20, beginning with a service at North Raleigh Presbyterian Church, 11905 Strickland Road, Raleigh, NC 27613, at 11:30 a.m. and continuing with a Celebration of Life open house at The Cypress of Raleigh Clubhouse, 8801 Cypress Lakes Drive, Raleigh, NC 27615, from 1:30-3:30 p.m. The family welcomes all to attend. In place of flowers, the family suggests donations in Marva’s memory to the P.E.O. Program for Continuing Education, through the P.E.O. Foundation at www.peonc.org, or charity of your choice.
For additional information or for service details, please reach out to the family directly.
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City of Oaks Cremation and Funeral Home is a full-service funeral home in Raleigh, serving all of North Carolina and beyond. We provide an alternative to costly funeral homes and every day we help families in Raleigh, Durham, Chapel Hill and all over North Carolina make simple, affordable funeral arrangements.
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Apples to Apples
Just like all other licensed funeral homes in North Carolina, City of Oaks Cremation, LLC is regulated by the NC Board of Funeral Service.
The same laws that apply to the big corporate funeral homes also apply to the modest independently owned firms like ours. All crematories in North Carolina, regardless of who owns them, are inspected annually by the state and must adhere to the same rules and laws.
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We're committed to providing families within our community unsurpassed service before, during and after the time of loss.
Our staff will provide clear communication to your family through each step as we move forward from the original phone call notifying us of a death to the time we deliver the urn back to your family. We will treat your family with the utmost respect, as we honor the wishes of your loved one.
We promise to make this process affordable and as endurable as possible.
State Wide
Our Funeral Home is located in Wake County NC; however, we provide our services to families throughout the entire State.
Unlike other funeral homes, we don't charge an additional mileage fee. Regardless of what county you live in, we can help your family with making simple, affordable funeral arrangements. From Asheville to Wilmington, we're proud to help families statewide.
Our Services
$1196.75
Nobody likes surprise costs added in at the last minute. We guarantee you will not find any hidden charges here. We include everything you need for a simple or direct cremation. Simple, affordable and reliable. We have not changed the cost of our direct cremation service since we opened City of Oaks in 2012.
$2875.66
We offer the option of choosing how you receive your loved ones remains. Selecting our Direct Cremation with Solidified Remains option is a beautiful way to transform cremated remains into 40-60 “stones” that you can hold.
$1917.84
City of Oaks Funeral Home and Cremation provides an affordable cremation option with onsite visitation. Nobody likes surprise costs added in at the last minute. We guarantee you will not find any hidden charges here. Simple, affordable and reliable.
$2497.50
An immediate burial has the same end result as a traditional burial; however, we have eliminated the extra (sometimes unnecessary) services prior to getting to the cemetery. Not everyone wants an open casket for viewing or a limousine for the family. Despite the term immediate, we can move as fast as you need or as slow as you like. This option simply allows you to save money by eliminating some of the fancy extras at the funeral home.
$6081.48
We offer the same traditional funeral services as the big corporately owned funeral homes in the area; however, we cost about half the amount. You might consider a traditional funeral service if your family is looking for an open casket visitation, a traditional church service or a funeral service in the funeral home's chapel. A traditional funeral service can be altered to fit the needs of your family.
$3033.75
This establishment is one of a select number of funeral homes who meet the criteria for providing green funeral service by the Green Burial Council; a tax-exempt, nonprofit organization working to encourage environmentally sustainability in the field of funeral service. Our Green options allow for a funeral to take place without the use of toxic and non-biodegradable materials/chemicals.
$2640.59
As an alternative to traditional cremation, City of Oaks Funeral Home also offers Aquamation. The Aquamation process, often referred to as alkaline hydrolysis, uses a solution of water and potassium hydroxide to facilitate natural decomposition.