Albert Salvatore Passaretti Jr.

It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of our beloved Albert Salvatore Passaretti Jr., 82, of Clayton, North Carolina, who passed away peacefully on Wednesday, October 21, 2026. Born on November 6, 1943, in Brooklyn, New York, Al lived a life defined by love, loyalty, laughter, and an unwavering devotion to his wife and family. To Al, family was everything, and the life he built with those he loved was his greatest accomplishment.

Al is now reunited with his cherished wife of 55 years, Frances Passaretti, who passed away last year. Together, they shared a wonderful life, beginning in Brooklyn, continuing in Staten Island, New York, and eventually retiring to Clayton, North Carolina, in 2013, a move they often called the best decision of their lives. Known as “Forever Lovers,” Al and Fran shared a bond built on trust, respect, laughter, and countless treasured moments. Their love story lives on through the family they raised and the traditions they established, bringing comfort to those who find solace in knowing they are together again.

Al was an incredible father and role model to his children, Lisa Bland and Albert III, offering guidance, encouragement, and steadfast support throughout their lives. He also taught them the art of posing for photographs whenever he needed to finish the remaining 35mm film in his camera. He welcomed his son-in-law, Teddy, and daughter-in-law, Christina, with open arms, embracing them as his own. Above all, Al's greatest joy was being a grandfather. His grandchildren—Nicholas, Thomas, Natalie, Albert IV, and Christal—were the lights of his life. As their beloved Papa, he filled their days with laughter, comfort, and unconditional love. He had a special name and favorite saying for each of them, creating a unique bond that made every grandchild feel treasured.

Some of the most cherished family moments were the simplest: Sunday dinners that brought everyone together, making rainbow cookies, game nights filled with laughter, and sleepovers complete with stories, York Peppermint Patties, and plenty of affection. He also passed along his love of television to his older grandchildren, who are now hooked on watching Castle and The Rookie on repeat because of him.

Al was a member of the first graduating class of Xaverian High School in Brooklyn. He went on to proudly serve his country in the United States Coast Guard, where he discovered his talent for photography and, just as memorably, learned that he no longer liked the smell or taste of bacon. Following his service, he owned and operated Albert Photography for nearly 20 years, running his studio in the Brooklyn neighborhood where he grew up. Through his lens, he captured countless moments and memories, a fitting reflection of a man who understood the importance of preserving life's special occasions. Al also worked as a school bus driver in Brooklyn for more than 35 years and was a member of ATU Local 1181-1061. His dedication to service extended into his community, where he was a longtime member of the Knights of Columbus for five decades, serving as Grand Knight, and a member of the American Legion 6th Memorial Post 1833 in Park Slope.

Al loved traveling with Fran and his family and friends, especially enjoying all-inclusive resorts and cruises. He spent many happy hours bowling with friends in various leagues and enjoyed attending baseball games, comedy shows, and concerts, and dining out at favorite restaurants. Al was a devoted New York Yankees fan, an avid movie and sitcom enthusiast, and a devoted Mustang lover, with a special fondness for his 1967 and 2015 Mustangs.

To many, Al was simply “Papa.” He was also a caring uncle, a dear cousin, and a loyal friend whose presence brought warmth and humor to every gathering. He especially loved the holidays and delighted in opening his home to family and friends for get-togethers and a good round of cards. His integrity, generosity, kindness, booming laugh and unmistakable sense of humor left a lasting impression on all who knew him.

Al's legacy lives on in his children, grandchildren, extended family, and the many friends whose lives he enriched. Though he will be missed beyond words, Al will be remembered not only for what he did, but for how he made others feel: welcomed, supported, and genuinely cared for. His spirit will endure in family photographs, Sunday dinners, shared laughter, favorite stories, and the traditions that will continue for generations.

A funeral mass will be held at Saint Ann Catholic Church, 4057 US-70 Business Highway West, Clayton, on Thursday, October 29, 2026 at 12:30 PM. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to the Alzheimer’s Association (https://www.alz.org/?form=FUNSTKLFHDM) in his honor.