City of Oaks Funeral Home & Cremation

D. Lupino H. Washington

Chapel Hill, North Carolina

Age 64.
Died 07/16/2023.

D. Lupino H. Washington
D. Lupino Holmes Washington, 64, of Buffalo Junction, Virginia, died on 16 July 2023 from injuries sustained after an attack by her longtime partner.

Lupino was born in El Paso, Texas on 4 June 1959. She attended University of North Carolina-Chapel Hill and ultimately graduated with her Bachelors degree in Nursing from University of North Carolina-Greensboro. She worked as a nurse for nearly 40 years, at Moses Cone Hospital (Greensboro, NC), George Washington University Hospital (Washington, DC), Prince George’s Hospital Center (Cheverly, MD), and Duke University Hospital (Durham, NC). She was a fixture in each place, working in a variety of intensive care and post-surgical units, mentoring and coaching young and seasoned medical professionals alike, and passing on her extensive knowledge to everyone who asked (and some who didn’t). She loved to garden, crochet blankets for friends and family, and dote on her pets, her children’s pets, and animals in general.

A celebration of her life will take place at a later date. For more information, or to send condolences, memories, photos of Lupino and the like, please email Cards and other physical items can be sent to D. Nicole Washington, PO Box 58859, New Orleans, LA 70158.

Lupino is survived by a large and loving family, including her two children, her parents, her two siblings, and a bevy of heartbroken nieces, nephews, niblings, and close friends. She is also survived by Brewster and Angus, her dogs, who were with her in her last conscious moments.

The family would like it known that we did not lose Lupino. She was taken from us in an act of violence by someone who claimed to love her. If you or anyone you know is suffering from intimate partner violence, please know that there are people willing to help you.

For additional information or for service details, please reach out to the family directly.

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City of Oaks Cremation and Funeral Home is a full-service funeral home in Raleigh, serving all of North Carolina and beyond. We provide an alternative to costly funeral homes and every day we help families in Raleigh, Durham, Chapel Hill and all over North Carolina make simple, affordable funeral arrangements.

Simply having to reach out to a funeral home can feel overwhelming. Our goal is to simplify the entire funeral home experience and make the process as easy as possible. We hope to eliminate any unnecessary surprises by publishing our total cost and the services we provide directly on our website. All of our obituaries are provided free of charge as a way to help families celebrate and commemorate the lives of their loved ones.

Our Promise

Apples to Apples

Just like all other licensed funeral homes in North Carolina, City of Oaks Cremation, LLC is regulated by the NC Board of Funeral Service.

The same laws that apply to the big corporate funeral homes also apply to the modest independently owned firms like ours. All crematories in North Carolina, regardless of who owns them, are inspected annually by the state and must adhere to the same rules and laws.

Genuine Care

We're committed to providing families within our community unsurpassed service before, during and after the time of loss.

Our staff will provide clear communication to your family through each step as we move forward from the original phone call notifying us of a death to the time we deliver the urn back to your family. We will treat your family with the utmost respect, as we honor the wishes of your loved one.

We promise to make this process affordable and as endurable as possible.

State Wide

Our Funeral Home is located in Wake County NC; however, we provide our services to families throughout the entire State.

Unlike other funeral homes, we don't charge an additional mileage fee. Regardless of what county you live in, we can help your family with making simple, affordable funeral arrangements. From Asheville to Wilmington, we're proud to help families statewide.

Our Services

Direct Cremation


Nobody likes surprise costs added in at the last minute. We guarantee you will not find any hidden charges here. We include everything you need for a simple or direct cremation. Simple, affordable and reliable. We have not changed the cost of our direct cremation service since we opened City of Oaks in 2012.

Cremation with Solidified Remains


We offer the option of choosing how you receive your loved ones remains. Selecting our Direct Cremation with Solidified Remains option is a beautiful way to transform cremated remains into 40-60 “stones” that you can hold.

Cremation with Visitation


City of Oaks Funeral Home and Cremation provides an affordable cremation option with onsite visitation. Nobody likes surprise costs added in at the last minute. We guarantee you will not find any hidden charges here. Simple, affordable and reliable.

Immediate Burial


An immediate burial has the same end result as a traditional burial; however, we have eliminated the extra (sometimes unnecessary) services prior to getting to the cemetery. Not everyone wants an open casket for viewing or a limousine for the family. Despite the term immediate, we can move as fast as you need or as slow as you like. This option simply allows you to save money by eliminating some of the fancy extras at the funeral home.

Traditional Funeral


We offer the same traditional funeral services as the big corporately owned funeral homes in the area; however, we cost about half the amount. You might consider a traditional funeral service if your family is looking for an open casket visitation, a traditional church service or a funeral service in the funeral home's chapel. A traditional funeral service can be altered to fit the needs of your family.

Green Burial


This establishment is one of a select number of funeral homes who meet the criteria for providing green funeral service by the Green Burial Council; a tax-exempt, nonprofit organization working to encourage environmentally sustainability in the field of funeral service. Our Green options allow for a funeral to take place without the use of toxic and non-biodegradable materials/chemicals.



As an alternative to traditional cremation, City of Oaks Funeral Home also offers Aquamation. The Aquamation process, often referred to as alkaline hydrolysis, uses a solution of water and potassium hydroxide to facilitate natural decomposition.

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