City of Oaks Funeral Home & Cremation

Obituary
Diane Elizabeth Hagedorn

Apex, North Carolina

Age 76.
Died 04/21/2025.

Diane Elizabeth Hagedorn
In Loving Memory of Diane Elizabeth Hagedorn
June 2, 1948 – April 21, 2025

It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of Diane Elizabeth Hagedorn, who left us peacefully on April 21, 2025, in Apex, North Carolina, surrounded by love. Born on June 2, 1948, in Toledo, Ohio, Diane brought warmth, joy, and a spark of something truly special into every life she touched.

She spent much of her life in the suburbs of Chicago, a city she held dear in her heart. The vibrant energy and culture of the "BIG city" spoke to her spirit. For the past 29 years, Diane made her home in Cary, North Carolina, where she built a beautiful life filled with family, friendships, memories, and love.

Diane was many things—strong, stylish, witty, and always unforgettable. Her smile could light up any room, and her laugh was contagious, leaving a trail of joy in its wake. She was truly one of a kind—our Miss Diva Di, full of grace, charm, and a sparkle that never faded.


Though her presence will be deeply missed, we find comfort in knowing she has ascended to a heavenly place, free from pain, filled with eternal love and everlasting peace.

She is lovingly survived by her sister, Annette Simon, and brother-in-law, Gabriel Simon; her daughter, Hollie Quinn; son-in-law, Cameron Quinn; grand-dog, Rufus; and son, Bradley Hagedorn. She is also survived by her nieces and nephews: AnneMarie Simon, Jeffery Simon and his wife, Renee Simon, and Ryan Simon. All of her beloved relatives, along with so many dear friends, mourn the loss of a truly remarkable woman.

There is no service scheduled at this time. In honor of Diane, her daughter Hollie kindly asks that you take a quiet moment to remember her—perhaps while releasing a balloon in her memory. Let it rise high, just like her spirit always did. Please reach out to Hollie directly with any questions.

Rest in beauty and serenity, Diane. Your light continues to shine in our hearts.

For additional information or for service details, please reach out to the family directly.


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City of Oaks Cremation and Funeral Home is a full-service funeral home in Raleigh, serving all of North Carolina and beyond. We provide an alternative to costly funeral homes and every day we help families in Raleigh, Durham, Chapel Hill and all over North Carolina make simple, affordable funeral arrangements.

Simply having to reach out to a funeral home can feel overwhelming. Our goal is to simplify the entire funeral home experience and make the process as easy as possible. We hope to eliminate any unnecessary surprises by publishing our total cost and the services we provide directly on our website. All of our obituaries are provided free of charge as a way to help families celebrate and commemorate the lives of their loved ones.

Our Promise

Apples to Apples

Just like all other licensed funeral homes in North Carolina, City of Oaks Cremation, LLC is regulated by the NC Board of Funeral Service.


The same laws that apply to the big corporate funeral homes also apply to the modest independently owned firms like ours. All crematories in North Carolina, regardless of who owns them, are inspected annually by the state and must adhere to the same rules and laws.

Genuine Care

We're committed to providing families within our community unsurpassed service before, during and after the time of loss.


Our staff will provide clear communication to your family through each step as we move forward from the original phone call notifying us of a death to the time we deliver the urn back to your family. We will treat your family with the utmost respect, as we honor the wishes of your loved one.


We promise to make this process affordable and as endurable as possible.

State Wide

Our Funeral Home is located in Wake County NC; however, we provide our services to families throughout the entire State.


Unlike other funeral homes, we don't charge an additional mileage fee. Regardless of what county you live in, we can help your family with making simple, affordable funeral arrangements. From Asheville to Wilmington, we're proud to help families statewide.

Our Services

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Direct Cremation

$1196.75

Nobody likes surprise costs added in at the last minute. We guarantee you will not find any hidden charges here. We include everything you need for a simple or direct cremation. Simple, affordable and reliable. We have not changed the cost of our direct cremation service since we opened City of Oaks in 2012.

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Cremation with Solidified Remains

$2875.66

We offer the option of choosing how you receive your loved ones remains. Selecting our Direct Cremation with Solidified Remains option is a beautiful way to transform cremated remains into 40-60 “stones” that you can hold.

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Cremation with Visitation

$1917.84

City of Oaks Funeral Home and Cremation provides an affordable cremation option with onsite visitation. Nobody likes surprise costs added in at the last minute. We guarantee you will not find any hidden charges here. Simple, affordable and reliable.

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Immediate Burial

$2497.50

An immediate burial has the same end result as a traditional burial; however, we have eliminated the extra (sometimes unnecessary) services prior to getting to the cemetery. Not everyone wants an open casket for viewing or a limousine for the family. Despite the term immediate, we can move as fast as you need or as slow as you like. This option simply allows you to save money by eliminating some of the fancy extras at the funeral home.

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Traditional Funeral

$6081.48

We offer the same traditional funeral services as the big corporately owned funeral homes in the area; however, we cost about half the amount. You might consider a traditional funeral service if your family is looking for an open casket visitation, a traditional church service or a funeral service in the funeral home's chapel. A traditional funeral service can be altered to fit the needs of your family.

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Green Burial

$3033.75

This establishment is one of a select number of funeral homes who meet the criteria for providing green funeral service by the Green Burial Council; a tax-exempt, nonprofit organization working to encourage environmentally sustainability in the field of funeral service. Our Green options allow for a funeral to take place without the use of toxic and non-biodegradable materials/chemicals.

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Aquamation

$2640.59

As an alternative to traditional cremation, City of Oaks Funeral Home also offers Aquamation. The Aquamation process, often referred to as alkaline hydrolysis, uses a solution of water and potassium hydroxide to facilitate natural decomposition.

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