City of Oaks Funeral Home & Cremation

Obituary
Eileen Catherine Cenfetelli

Raleigh, North Carolina

Age 85.
Died 09/01/2025.

Eileen Catherine Cenfetelli
Eileen Catherine Cenfetelli, 85, of Raleigh, North Carolina, passed away peacefully on September 1, 2025, surrounded by the love of her family. Born on December 13, 1939, in Erie, Pennsylvania, she was the daughter of the late Elmer Ludwig Heberlein and Hildegard Theresa Heberlein.

A 1957 graduate of St. Benedict Academy in Erie, Eileen dedicated her life to her family as a loving and devoted homemaker. She and her husband, Bob, raised their children in Endicott, New York, where they lived for nearly 30 years before moving to Raleigh in 1990. Eileen and Bob shared over 66 years of marriage—a true testament to enduring love and partnership.

Eileen found deep joy in life’s simple pleasures. She enjoyed bowling, playing mahjongg and bridge, and hosting luncheons with her cherished circle of friends. She loved gardening, watching the birds in her backyard—especially bluebirds—cooking for her family, working on puzzles, and enjoying Hallmark movies. Her greatest joy, however, was spending time with her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren.Her quiet strength, compassion, and gentle presence left a lasting imprint on all who knew her.

Eileen is survived by her husband, Anthony Robert Cenfetelli Sr., and their four children: Anthony Robert Cenfetelli Jr., Catherine Anne Higgins (Timothy), David Allan Cenfetelli and Karen Marie Campbell. She was a proud and loving grandmother to Lindsay Bonacci (John), Hayden Campbell, Shelby Moody (Christopher), Courtney Campbell, Keith Higgins (Ariana), and Thomas Higgins; and a great-grandmother to Bentley Higgins, Alyssa Higgins, Ezekiel Higgins and Lorelai Higgins.

She is also survived by her siblings Dennis Heberlein (Carol), Carol Fall (James), Janice Phillips (Victor) and Gregory Heberlein (Bonnie); her brother-in-law Daniel Cenfetelli (Karen); and many beloved nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her sister-in-law Bonita Schoen (Henry, deceased).

Eileen’s love and devotion to her family, her gentle spirit, and the joy she brought to everyday moments will be deeply missed and forever remembered.

A memorial service will be held in Erie, Pennsylvania, on Saturday, October 25, at 11:00 AM at St. Boniface Church, 9367 Wattsburg Road, with interment to follow at Mary, Queen of Peace Cemetery, 6000 Lake Pleasant Road.

For additional information or for service details, please reach out to the family directly.


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Apples to Apples

Just like all other licensed funeral homes in North Carolina, City of Oaks Cremation, LLC is regulated by the NC Board of Funeral Service.


The same laws that apply to the big corporate funeral homes also apply to the modest independently owned firms like ours. All crematories in North Carolina, regardless of who owns them, are inspected annually by the state and must adhere to the same rules and laws.

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We're committed to providing families within our community unsurpassed service before, during and after the time of loss.


Our staff will provide clear communication to your family through each step as we move forward from the original phone call notifying us of a death to the time we deliver the urn back to your family. We will treat your family with the utmost respect, as we honor the wishes of your loved one.


We promise to make this process affordable and as endurable as possible.

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Our Funeral Home is located in Wake County NC; however, we provide our services to families throughout the entire State.


Unlike other funeral homes, we don't charge an additional mileage fee. Regardless of what county you live in, we can help your family with making simple, affordable funeral arrangements. From Asheville to Wilmington, we're proud to help families statewide.

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Direct Cremation

$1196.75

Nobody likes surprise costs added in at the last minute. We guarantee you will not find any hidden charges here. We include everything you need for a simple or direct cremation. Simple, affordable and reliable. We have not changed the cost of our direct cremation service since we opened City of Oaks in 2012.

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Cremation with Solidified Remains

$2875.66

We offer the option of choosing how you receive your loved ones remains. Selecting our Direct Cremation with Solidified Remains option is a beautiful way to transform cremated remains into 40-60 “stones” that you can hold.

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Cremation with Visitation

$1917.84

City of Oaks Funeral Home and Cremation provides an affordable cremation option with onsite visitation. Nobody likes surprise costs added in at the last minute. We guarantee you will not find any hidden charges here. Simple, affordable and reliable.

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Cremation with Private Family Viewing

$1596.75

City of Oaks Funeral Home and Cremation provides an affordable cremation with a private family viewing. A private family viewing allows up to 10 immediate family members or friends to spend time with a loved one when a public visitation is not preferred.

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Immediate Burial

$2497.50

An immediate burial has the same end result as a traditional burial; however, we have eliminated the extra (sometimes unnecessary) services prior to getting to the cemetery. Not everyone wants an open casket for viewing or a limousine for the family. Despite the term immediate, we can move as fast as you need or as slow as you like. This option simply allows you to save money by eliminating some of the fancy extras at the funeral home.

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Traditional Funeral

$6081.48

We offer the same traditional funeral services as the big corporately owned funeral homes in the area; however, we cost about half the amount. You might consider a traditional funeral service if your family is looking for an open casket visitation, a traditional church service or a funeral service in the funeral home's chapel. A traditional funeral service can be altered to fit the needs of your family.

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Green Burial

$3033.75

This establishment is one of a select number of funeral homes who meet the criteria for providing green funeral service by the Green Burial Council; a tax-exempt, nonprofit organization working to encourage environmentally sustainability in the field of funeral service. Our Green options allow for a funeral to take place without the use of toxic and non-biodegradable materials/chemicals.

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Aquamation

$2640.59

As an alternative to traditional cremation, City of Oaks Funeral Home also offers Aquamation. The Aquamation process, often referred to as alkaline hydrolysis, uses a solution of water and potassium hydroxide to facilitate natural decomposition.

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