City of Oaks Funeral Home & Cremation
Obituary
Bobby Ray Maines
Durham, North Carolina
Age 82.
Died 09/22/2025.
Bobby was a loving, kind, and compassionate man, with a strong belief in his faith. He was a dedicated husband and father who lived his life to help others and he gave 110% of his time to his loving family. As a deacon in his church, he took the time to help his church family and loved his trips with the youth group. Bobby always had a kind word for everyone he met and accepted people for who they are. He was a fun loving, deeply caring person who touched many lives.
Bobby is survived by his loving wife of 40 years, Shirley Maines; his children, Sandra DeBoard, Debbra Butts and her husband Martin, Bobby Maines, Jr, and Charles Maines; his stepchildren, Mary Martin, Robert Martin, Randall Martin, Margaret Norwood, and Jennifer Raisig and her husband Chris; as well as 15 grandchildren, 14 great grandchildren, and 3 great-great grandchildren. He is also survived by his brothers, Dale Maines and wife Laura, Dean Maines, and Donald Maines and wife Freida, and his sister Mary Herrington and husband Chuck. Bobby was also blessed with an extended family and wide network of friends, all of whom he loved dearly.
Bobby will be remembered for his loving nature, gentle soul, and uncanny ability to soothe a baby. The grandkids love their PawPaw! A diehard UNC fan, he cheered them on whether they would win or lose. When asked to describe Bobby in one word, his family responded with caring, generous, honorable, proud, pure, accepting, kind, heart (of gold), patience, forgiveness, and, of course, love. He will also be fondly remembered everytime we need ice for a family gathering! There will always be a special place in our hearts for his kind soul.
A celebration of life will be held at Rose of Sharon Baptist Church, located at 4109 Guess Rd, Durham, NC, on Saturday, September 27, 2025, at 2:00 pm.
John 14
Let not your heart be troubled: ye believe in God, believe also in me.
In my Father's house are many mansions: if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you.
And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again, and receive you unto myself; that where i am, there ye may be also.
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City of Oaks Cremation and Funeral Home is a full-service funeral home in Raleigh, serving all of North Carolina and beyond. We provide an alternative to costly funeral homes and every day we help families in Raleigh, Durham, Chapel Hill and all over North Carolina make simple, affordable funeral arrangements.
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Apples to Apples
Just like all other licensed funeral homes in North Carolina, City of Oaks Cremation, LLC is regulated by the NC Board of Funeral Service.
The same laws that apply to the big corporate funeral homes also apply to the modest independently owned firms like ours. All crematories in North Carolina, regardless of who owns them, are inspected annually by the state and must adhere to the same rules and laws.
Genuine Care
We're committed to providing families within our community unsurpassed service before, during and after the time of loss.
Our staff will provide clear communication to your family through each step as we move forward from the original phone call notifying us of a death to the time we deliver the urn back to your family. We will treat your family with the utmost respect, as we honor the wishes of your loved one.
We promise to make this process affordable and as endurable as possible.
State Wide
Our Funeral Home is located in Wake County NC; however, we provide our services to families throughout the entire State.
Unlike other funeral homes, we don't charge an additional mileage fee. Regardless of what county you live in, we can help your family with making simple, affordable funeral arrangements. From Asheville to Wilmington, we're proud to help families statewide.
Our Services
$1196.75
Nobody likes surprise costs added in at the last minute. We guarantee you will not find any hidden charges here. We include everything you need for a simple or direct cremation. Simple, affordable and reliable. We have not changed the cost of our direct cremation service since we opened City of Oaks in 2012.
$2875.66
We offer the option of choosing how you receive your loved ones remains. Selecting our Direct Cremation with Solidified Remains option is a beautiful way to transform cremated remains into 40-60 “stones” that you can hold.
$1917.84
City of Oaks Funeral Home and Cremation provides an affordable cremation option with onsite visitation. Nobody likes surprise costs added in at the last minute. We guarantee you will not find any hidden charges here. Simple, affordable and reliable.
$1596.75
City of Oaks Funeral Home and Cremation provides an affordable cremation with a private family viewing. A private family viewing allows up to 10 immediate family members or friends to spend time with a loved one when a public visitation is not preferred.
$2497.50
An immediate burial has the same end result as a traditional burial; however, we have eliminated the extra (sometimes unnecessary) services prior to getting to the cemetery. Not everyone wants an open casket for viewing or a limousine for the family. Despite the term immediate, we can move as fast as you need or as slow as you like. This option simply allows you to save money by eliminating some of the fancy extras at the funeral home.
$6081.48
We offer the same traditional funeral services as the big corporately owned funeral homes in the area; however, we cost about half the amount. You might consider a traditional funeral service if your family is looking for an open casket visitation, a traditional church service or a funeral service in the funeral home's chapel. A traditional funeral service can be altered to fit the needs of your family.
$3033.75
This establishment is one of a select number of funeral homes who meet the criteria for providing green funeral service by the Green Burial Council; a tax-exempt, nonprofit organization working to encourage environmentally sustainability in the field of funeral service. Our Green options allow for a funeral to take place without the use of toxic and non-biodegradable materials/chemicals.
$2640.59
As an alternative to traditional cremation, City of Oaks Funeral Home also offers Aquamation. The Aquamation process, often referred to as alkaline hydrolysis, uses a solution of water and potassium hydroxide to facilitate natural decomposition.