Robert DiStefano

Robert “Moose” DiStefano, Sr., born August 5, 1937 in Philadelphia, passed away at home on Thursday 2/12/2026 surrounded by the love of his family, leaving behind a legacy defined by faith, integrity, loyalty, humor, creativity, and unwavering devotion to his Lord and savior Jesus Christ and to the people he cherished most. He was 88 years old.

Bob is survived by his beloved wife of 53 years, Jan DiStefano, with whom he built a life rich in family, partnership, and purpose. Together, they founded and operated Heritage Advertising for 45 years, a testament to their shared determination, creativity, and entrepreneurial spirit.

He is survived by his three loving children, Robert (Jenny, Anna, Kate), Tracy (Julio), Matthew (Cheri, Jackson, Sofia) who were the pride of his life. We are proud, honored and lucky to have been able to call him Dad.

Bob was a giant both in stature and in his passion for life. He was an avid golfer with 3 holes-in-one to his name, a dedicated fisherman, a skilled gardener, a creative cook, a champion ping pong player and a lifelong artist whose work captured his imagination and warmth. He served honorably in the Army National Guard. He was a terrible speller, a fact he fully embraced with humor, often shrugging it off with the same good-natured charm that endeared him to everyone he met. But above all he was a cherished friend. To meet him was to love him and never forget him.

Deeply committed to his Catholic faith, Bob lived guided by devotion, humility, and gratitude. His loyalty and integrity—to God, family and friends—was unshakeable.

A gifted athlete, Moose attended NC State University, where he became a leading scorer and rebounder for the Wolfpack. His talent and tenacity on the court led to him being drafted by the Boston Celtics, an accomplishment that remained a cherished point of pride throughout his life.

Bob was a man of tremendous heart—creative, funny, hardworking, and steadfast. He poured himself into every endeavor, every relationship, every moment. Those fortunate enough to know him carry with them memories of his strength, generosity, humor and gentle spirit.

We will carry with us our Dad’s life lessons and will do our best to honor his memory and spirit. He will be deeply missed and forever loved and we will cherish the time we had together.

We would also like to extend our heartfelt appreciation to all the caregivers who went beyond just giving care and became family.

From the pages of our Dad’s prayer book:

“My hands were made to help my neighbor

My eyes were made to read God’s word

My feet were made to walk in His footsteps

My body is the temple of the Lord”

Our family will receive visitors at St. Francis of Assisi on Friday March 6th from 12:00-1:00. Mass will follow. A catered Celebration of Life will begin following the services at our family home.

St. Francis of Assisi

11401 Leesville Rd, Raleigh NC