City of Oaks Funeral Home & Cremation

Obituary
Kathy Graham-Ward

Clayton, North Carolina

Age 67.
Died 12/14/2022.

Kathy Graham-Ward
Kathy Jane Graham-Ward
June 14, 1955 - December 14, 2022

Kathy Jane Graham-Ward, 67, died peacefully at home with her beloved wife Bobbi by her side. Kathy was a devoted wife, mother and grandmother and she will be deeply missed by her family and friends.

Kathy was born June 14, 1955 in Raleigh, NC to the late Andrew Ward and Kathryn Byrd. She is preceded in death by her parents. She is survived by her wife of 22 years, Bobbi Graham-Ward of the home, brothers Bobby (Gail) of Canton, GA and Bill (Vickie), of Winston Salem, NC, 2 Daughters Tara (Juan), Christi (Chip) - 3 grandchildren, Kendrick, Kayla, and Kim, nieces and nephews and a host of other family and friends.

She graduated from UNC-Chapel Hill in 1985. Kathy worked with AllTech Wiring and Controls as an estimator. She deeply loved her work and her work family.

As a person of strong faith, Kathy loved serving in her local church community. She was a dedicated member of St. John’s MCC in Raleigh, NC for 28 years. She served in many roles exercising her spiritual gifts including, the Board of Directors, Board of Trustees, Pastoral Search Committee, and Discipleship Team.

A Memorial Service will be held Monday, December 19th, 2022 at 11am with a graveside service following. A visitation will be held Sunday, December 18th, 2022 from 6pm-8pm and on Monday at 10am (prior to the Memorial Service). Both the Memorial and Visitation will be held at St. John’s MCC, 4 N Blount, St., Raleigh, NC 27601.

The family would like memorial contributions to be made to either Transitions Life Care (250 Hospice Cir. Raleigh, NC 27607 or St. John’s MCC (PO Box 12871, Raleigh, NC 27605).

For additional information or for service details, please reach out to the family directly.


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Apples to Apples

Just like all other licensed funeral homes in North Carolina, City of Oaks Cremation, LLC is regulated by the NC Board of Funeral Service.


The same laws that apply to the big corporate funeral homes also apply to the modest independently owned firms like ours. All crematories in North Carolina, regardless of who owns them, are inspected annually by the state and must adhere to the same rules and laws.

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Our staff will provide clear communication to your family through each step as we move forward from the original phone call notifying us of a death to the time we deliver the urn back to your family. We will treat your family with the utmost respect, as we honor the wishes of your loved one.


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Our Funeral Home is located in Wake County NC; however, we provide our services to families throughout the entire State.


Unlike other funeral homes, we don't charge an additional mileage fee. Regardless of what county you live in, we can help your family with making simple, affordable funeral arrangements. From Asheville to Wilmington, we're proud to help families statewide.

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Direct Cremation

$1196.75

Nobody likes surprise costs added in at the last minute. We guarantee you will not find any hidden charges here. We include everything you need for a simple or direct cremation. Simple, affordable and reliable. We have not changed the cost of our direct cremation service since we opened City of Oaks in 2012.

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Cremation with Visitation

$1917.84

City of Oaks Funeral Home and Cremation provides an affordable cremation option with onsite visitation. Nobody likes surprise costs added in at the last minute. We guarantee you will not find any hidden charges here. Simple, affordable and reliable.

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Immediate Burial

$2497.50

An immediate burial has the same end result as a traditional burial; however, we have eliminated the extra (sometimes unnecessary) services prior to getting to the cemetery. Not everyone wants an open casket for viewing or a limousine for the family. Despite the term immediate, we can move as fast as you need or as slow as you like. This option simply allows you to save money by eliminating some of the fancy extras at the funeral home.

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Traditional Funeral

$5866.98

We offer the same traditional funeral services as the big corporately owned funeral homes in the area; however, we cost about half the amount. You might consider a traditional funeral service if your family is looking for an open casket visitation, a traditional church service or a funeral service in the funeral home's chapel. A traditional funeral service can be altered to fit the needs of your family.

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Green Burial

$3033.75

This establishment is one of a select number of funeral homes who meet the criteria for providing green funeral service by the Green Burial Council; a tax-exempt, nonprofit organization working to encourage environmentally sustainability in the field of funeral service. Our Green options allow for a funeral to take place without the use of toxic and non-biodegradable materials/chemicals.

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Aquamation

$2640.59

As an alternative to traditional cremation, City of Oaks Funeral Home also offers Aquamation. The Aquamation process, often referred to as alkaline hydrolysis, uses a solution of water and potassium hydroxide to facilitate natural decomposition.

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