City of Oaks Funeral Home & Cremation

Obituary
Roswitha Annemarie Grishin

Cary, North Carolina

Age 81.
Died 02/19/2022.

Roswitha Annemarie Grishin
Roswitha Annemarie Grishin (n. Shahn) passed away on Saturday, 2/19/2022 at 7:59pm EST. She was born November 13, 1940, in Grossenhain, Germany to schoolteacher (Annemarie) and a state tax official (Kurt).
As a young girl, she endured hardship and chaos during the last days of the World War II when her town was occupied by victorious Soviet troops.
Although only five years old at the war’s end, she could share vivid memories of those turbulent days, as well as of the bleak and colorless world of the East German
National Security State that followed.
In 1953, she fled with her parents (along with her maternal Grandmother and Aunt) to the West, eventually settling in Bad Kreuznach (14 km from the Mainz-Bingen district),
where, in 1962, she met Anatole Grishin, then stationed with the US Army at its Cold War military base there.
She married Anatole in 1963 and moved to North Carolina, where he completed his doctorate at North Carolina State University. Her first son, Michael was born two years later, followed quickly by Alex and John. For most of her life, she was a housewife and mother. But she earned her own college degree (a BA in French Language and Literature) in 1983,  and teaching certificate in 1994
–teaching High School German and French for a time. While she spoke English early in life and spoke fluently, she always took a keen interest in other foreign languages
–learning Russian as a teenager, and later Spanish, which she continued to study until she no longer could.
She was a strong, independent woman, but also kind and considerate (she loved animals –reliably donating to shelters and conservancy groups). 
She was a loving mother and fierce advocate for her three sons who survive her.

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City of Oaks Cremation and Funeral Home is a full-service funeral home in Raleigh, serving all of North Carolina and beyond. We provide an affordable alternative to costly funeral homes and every day we help families in Raleigh, Durham, Chapel Hill and all over North Carolina make simple, affordable funeral arrangements.

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Just like all other licensed funeral homes in North Carolina, City of Oaks Cremation, LLC is regulated by the NC Board of Funeral Service.


The same laws that apply to the big corporate funeral homes also apply to the modest independently owned firms like ours. All crematories in North Carolina, regardless of who owns them, are inspected annually by the state and must adhere to the same rules and laws.

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Our Funeral Home is located in Wake County NC; however, we provide our services to families throughout the entire State.


Unlike other funeral homes, we don't charge an additional mileage fee. Regardless of what county you live in, we can help your family with making simple, affordable funeral arrangements. From Asheville to Wilmington, we're proud to help families statewide.

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Direct Cremation

$1196.75

Nobody likes surprise costs added in at the last minute. We guarantee you will not find any hidden charges here. We include everything you need for a simple or direct cremation. Simple, affordable and reliable. We have not changed the cost of our direct cremation service since we opened City of Oaks in 2012.

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Cremation with Visitation

$1917.84

City of Oaks Funeral Home and Cremation provides an affordable cremation option with onsite visitation. Nobody likes surprise costs added in at the last minute. We guarantee you will not find any hidden charges here. Simple, affordable and reliable.

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Immediate Burial

$2497.50

An immediate burial has the same end result as a traditional burial; however, we have eliminated the extra (sometimes unnecessary) services prior to getting to the cemetery. Not everyone wants an open casket for viewing or a limousine for the family. Despite the term immediate, we can move as fast as you need or as slow as you like. This option simply allows you to save money by eliminating some of the fancy extras at the funeral home.

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Traditional Funeral

$5428.14

We offer the same traditional funeral services as the big corporately owned funeral homes in the area; however, we cost about half the amount. You might consider a traditional funeral service if your family is looking for an open casket visitation, a traditional church service or a funeral service in the funeral home's chapel. A traditional funeral service can be altered to fit the needs of your family.

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$3033.75

This establishment is one of a select number of funeral homes who meet the criteria for providing green funeral service by the Green Burial Council; a tax-exempt, nonprofit organization working to encourage environmentally sustainability in the field of funeral service. Our Green options allow for a funeral to take place without the use of toxic and non-biodegradable materials/chemicals.

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