Obituaries

2316 obituaries since August 2021

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Catherine Pomerans
Catherine Pomerans

Raleigh, North Carolina

Age 83 – Died 12/20/2021


Catherine Pomerans died on December 20th, 2021, in Raleigh, North Carolina. Katie was born on May 2nd, 1938 in Montevideo, Uruguay. She studied theatre and politics, and worked for the Peace Corps throughout South America with her husband, Dr. Mark Pomerans, before emigrating to ...

Suzanne G. Sheffield
Suzanne G. Sheffield

Naples, Florida

Age 82 – Died 12/18/2021


Suzanne Grafton Sheffield, 82, of Naples FL, passed away peacefully on December 18, 2021 with family by her side. Suzanne was a strong willed, generous, intelligent, hard working, quick-to-laugh, and fun-loving mother, grandmother (Meema), sister, aunt, and friend who was not af...

Jose Avilio Vega
Jose Avilio Vega

Apex, North Carolina

Age 82 – Died 12/17/2021


William Henry Flynn Jr.
William Henry Flynn Jr.

Garner, North Carolina

Age 84 – Died 12/17/2021


Shirlee Lakemaker Dale
Shirlee Lakemaker Dale

Raleigh, North Carolina

Age 85 – Died 12/17/2021


Shirlee Lakemaker “Sue” Dale, 85, of Raleigh, passed away in her home after a battle with colon cancer. The family is deeply appreciative of the loving care provided by Transitions Hospice Care. Funeral arrangements to be announced by the family. Shirlee was born April 11, 1936 ...

Charles Richard Connelly
Charles Richard Connelly

Bradenton, Florida

Age 78 – Died 12/17/2021


Timothy Rae Dove
Timothy Rae Dove

Raleigh, North Carolina

Age 57 – Died 12/17/2021


Timothy Rae Dove, 57, of Raleigh, NC, passed away on December 17, 2021 after a valiant battle with brain cancer. Tim was born on April 14, 1964 to James and Helen Ann (Pope) Dove in Rapid City, SD. Although as a part of a military family he lived in South Dakota, Texas, Alaska,...

Ami Carrillo
Ami Carrillo

Raleigh, North Carolina

Age 49 – Died 12/16/2021


Ami Carrillo, age 49, passed away too soon, but peacefully, at her home in Raleigh on December 16, 2021. Ami struggled with lifelong illnesses yet became a good friend to many, especially the less fortunate. Ami was a lifelong companion and soulmate to Kyle Weidner, and an adorin...

Diane Jean Calvi
Diane Jean Calvi

Fuquay-Varina, North Carolina

Age 76 – Died 12/15/2021


Ma Ysabel Cuellar Rodriguez
Ma Ysabel Cuellar Rodriguez

Hillsborough, North Carolina

Age 78 – Died 12/15/2021


Laurie Johnson Mello
Laurie Johnson Mello

Wendell, North Carolina

Age 57 – Died 12/15/2021


Laurie Johnson Mello, 57, of Wendell, NC was met by her Heavenly Father on December 15th after an unexpected illness. Laurie was born in Wisconsin to Coletta and Harold Johnson, who survive her. Laurie is also survived by her children, Jessica McDowell and Jeremy Mello (Dani), ...

Lawrence Deubler
Lawrence Deubler

Raleigh, North Carolina

Age 64 – Died 12/15/2021


Lawrence Deubler, known as Larry to those that loved him passed away on December 15, 2021. Larry was born in Niagara Falls NY, lived in South Florida for 30 years and then moved to Raleigh, NC in 2009 with his wife of 30 years, Lisa Lehrer Deubler. Larry would tell you that his...

Our Promise

Apples to Apples

Just like all other licensed funeral homes in North Carolina, City of Oaks Cremation, LLC is regulated by the NC Board of Funeral Service.


The same laws that apply to the big corporate funeral homes also apply to the modest independently owned firms like ours. All crematories in North Carolina, regardless of who owns them, are inspected annually by the state and must adhere to the same rules and laws.

Genuine Care

We're committed to providing families within our community unsurpassed service before, during and after the time of loss.


Our staff will provide clear communication to your family through each step as we move forward from the original phone call notifying us of a death to the time we deliver the urn back to your family. We will treat your family with the utmost respect, as we honor the wishes of your loved one.


We promise to make this process affordable and as endurable as possible.

State Wide

Our Funeral Home is located in Wake County NC; however, we provide our services to families throughout the entire State.


Unlike other funeral homes, we don't charge an additional mileage fee. Regardless of what county you live in, we can help your family with making simple, affordable funeral arrangements. From Asheville to Wilmington, we're proud to help families statewide.

Our Services

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Direct Cremation

$1196.75

Nobody likes surprise costs added in at the last minute. We guarantee you will not find any hidden charges here. We include everything you need for a simple or direct cremation. Simple, affordable and reliable. We have not changed the cost of our direct cremation service since we opened City of Oaks in 2012.

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Cremation with Solidified Remains

$2875.66

We offer the option of choosing how you receive your loved ones remains. Selecting our Direct Cremation with Solidified Remains option is a beautiful way to transform cremated remains into 40-60 “stones” that you can hold.

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Cremation with Visitation

$1917.84

City of Oaks Funeral Home and Cremation provides an affordable cremation option with onsite visitation. Nobody likes surprise costs added in at the last minute. We guarantee you will not find any hidden charges here. Simple, affordable and reliable.

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Immediate Burial

$2497.50

An immediate burial has the same end result as a traditional burial; however, we have eliminated the extra (sometimes unnecessary) services prior to getting to the cemetery. Not everyone wants an open casket for viewing or a limousine for the family. Despite the term immediate, we can move as fast as you need or as slow as you like. This option simply allows you to save money by eliminating some of the fancy extras at the funeral home.

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Traditional Funeral

$6081.48

We offer the same traditional funeral services as the big corporately owned funeral homes in the area; however, we cost about half the amount. You might consider a traditional funeral service if your family is looking for an open casket visitation, a traditional church service or a funeral service in the funeral home's chapel. A traditional funeral service can be altered to fit the needs of your family.

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Green Burial

$3033.75

This establishment is one of a select number of funeral homes who meet the criteria for providing green funeral service by the Green Burial Council; a tax-exempt, nonprofit organization working to encourage environmentally sustainability in the field of funeral service. Our Green options allow for a funeral to take place without the use of toxic and non-biodegradable materials/chemicals.

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Aquamation

$2640.59

As an alternative to traditional cremation, City of Oaks Funeral Home also offers Aquamation. The Aquamation process, often referred to as alkaline hydrolysis, uses a solution of water and potassium hydroxide to facilitate natural decomposition.

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