Obituaries

2316 obituaries since August 2021

We’re honored to be able to provide every family that chooses City of Oaks Funeral Home and Cremations a free-of-charge, shareable online obituary to honor their loved ones as well as an easy-to-use platform that allows them to update it in their own time. Here are recent obituaries that families have posted. If you’re looking for a specific obituary, you can search above, or view all obituaries here.

Daniel Lief Grodem
Daniel Lief Grodem

Yanceyville, North Carolina

Age 51 – Died 07/03/2024


With profound sorrow, we announce the passing of Daniel Lief Grodem. Daniel lost his courageous battle with acute myeloid leukemia on July 3, 2024, at 3:33 p.m. in Chapel Hill, North Carolina. He leaves behind his wife of (almost) 25 years, Stephanie Grodem, who will forever h...

Patricia Hasch
Patricia Hasch

Durham, North Carolina

Age 67 – Died 07/03/2024


Trisha Hasch was an accomplished urban planning professional with a passion for improving the lives of those less fortunate. Born and raised in Milwaukee, Wisconsin, Trisha Joined the Navy after high school. After completing her service, she lived in California for a time and the...

Gary Paul Kosten
Gary Paul Kosten

Raleigh, North Carolina

Age 49 – Died 06/29/2024


It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of our beloved family member, Gary Paul Kosten, who went home to be with Jesus on June 29, 2024. He was born August 13, 1974 in SanDiego, CA to Gary and Regena Kosten. Gary is survived by his parents, sister Julie Vanhoy (Mike...

Mary Lane Mallory
Mary Lane Mallory

Raleigh, North Carolina

Age 78 – Died 06/28/2024


Mary Lane Davis Mallory, 78, died on June 28, 2024 after a short battle with cancer. Her family and friends have great comfort knowing she is now in the embrace of her Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. She was born in Williamston, North Carolina on February 23, 1946, daughter of the...

James (Jimmy) Boegel
James (Jimmy) Boegel

Raleigh, North Carolina

Age 62 – Died 06/28/2024


James Andrew Boegel Sr., Jimmy, age 62, of Raleigh, NC passed away unexpectedly Friday, June 28, 2024 surrounded by his family. Jimmy was born in Whittier, California on April 12, 1962. The family then moved to Bethesda, MD where he and his seven siblings spent most of their chil...

George Randolph Bullock
George Randolph Bullock

Raleigh, North Carolina

Age 72 – Died 06/27/2024


George Randolph “Randy” Bullock or “Bubba”, father, brother, uncle and friend, passed away peacefully on June 27th 2024, at the age of 72. Born in Winston-Salem on September 29th 1951, Randy lived life the way he wanted. He worked for many years as a car salesman at John Hiester ...

Martha Jane Earp Guthe (Martye)
Martha Jane Earp Guthe (Martye)

Cary, North Carolina

Age 74 – Died 06/27/2024


It is with deep sadness that we announce the passing of Martha “Martye” Jane Earp Guthe on June 27, 2024. She died peacefully at home in Cary, NC, after several days spent surrounded by loved ones. She is survived by her husband, Douglas “Doug” Guthe, Jr.; her children Jody (Bill...

Jeffrey  LeRose
Jeffrey LeRose

Cary, North Carolina

Age 80 – Died 06/27/2024


Jeffrey William LeRose (Jeff),80, passed away at home on June 27, 2024 in Cary, NC. He was the son of the late John and Martha (Habegger) LeRose. He is survived by his wife of 58 years Joanne (Yannell) LeRose. He is also survived by children Jennifer Boyle (Jim Boyle) Judie LeRos...

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Apples to Apples

Just like all other licensed funeral homes in North Carolina, City of Oaks Cremation, LLC is regulated by the NC Board of Funeral Service.


The same laws that apply to the big corporate funeral homes also apply to the modest independently owned firms like ours. All crematories in North Carolina, regardless of who owns them, are inspected annually by the state and must adhere to the same rules and laws.

Genuine Care

We're committed to providing families within our community unsurpassed service before, during and after the time of loss.


Our staff will provide clear communication to your family through each step as we move forward from the original phone call notifying us of a death to the time we deliver the urn back to your family. We will treat your family with the utmost respect, as we honor the wishes of your loved one.


We promise to make this process affordable and as endurable as possible.

State Wide

Our Funeral Home is located in Wake County NC; however, we provide our services to families throughout the entire State.


Unlike other funeral homes, we don't charge an additional mileage fee. Regardless of what county you live in, we can help your family with making simple, affordable funeral arrangements. From Asheville to Wilmington, we're proud to help families statewide.

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Direct Cremation

$1196.75

Nobody likes surprise costs added in at the last minute. We guarantee you will not find any hidden charges here. We include everything you need for a simple or direct cremation. Simple, affordable and reliable. We have not changed the cost of our direct cremation service since we opened City of Oaks in 2012.

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Cremation with Solidified Remains

$2875.66

We offer the option of choosing how you receive your loved ones remains. Selecting our Direct Cremation with Solidified Remains option is a beautiful way to transform cremated remains into 40-60 “stones” that you can hold.

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Cremation with Visitation

$1917.84

City of Oaks Funeral Home and Cremation provides an affordable cremation option with onsite visitation. Nobody likes surprise costs added in at the last minute. We guarantee you will not find any hidden charges here. Simple, affordable and reliable.

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Immediate Burial

$2497.50

An immediate burial has the same end result as a traditional burial; however, we have eliminated the extra (sometimes unnecessary) services prior to getting to the cemetery. Not everyone wants an open casket for viewing or a limousine for the family. Despite the term immediate, we can move as fast as you need or as slow as you like. This option simply allows you to save money by eliminating some of the fancy extras at the funeral home.

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Traditional Funeral

$6081.48

We offer the same traditional funeral services as the big corporately owned funeral homes in the area; however, we cost about half the amount. You might consider a traditional funeral service if your family is looking for an open casket visitation, a traditional church service or a funeral service in the funeral home's chapel. A traditional funeral service can be altered to fit the needs of your family.

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Green Burial

$3033.75

This establishment is one of a select number of funeral homes who meet the criteria for providing green funeral service by the Green Burial Council; a tax-exempt, nonprofit organization working to encourage environmentally sustainability in the field of funeral service. Our Green options allow for a funeral to take place without the use of toxic and non-biodegradable materials/chemicals.

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Aquamation

$2640.59

As an alternative to traditional cremation, City of Oaks Funeral Home also offers Aquamation. The Aquamation process, often referred to as alkaline hydrolysis, uses a solution of water and potassium hydroxide to facilitate natural decomposition.

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